How do you get yourself through hard times?
We're taught that nothing is permanent that everything is part of the journey and not the destination. Your emotions change frequently, your thoughts change rapidly and your focus changes daily. It takes a strong and courageous mindset to keep toiling away on building a dream.
Success takes persistence. Some days you'll allow life to interrupt and at these times do not rush instead take your time. Other days you'll be full of energy and powering on accomplishing so much. In the days between success and sadness, all effort is needed to stay true to your dream. Change your mindset from scarcity and lack to one of fulfillment and security. Nothing is accomplished simply by wishing.
Amazingly re-training your thoughts is not as difficult as you might first think. Notice the difference between these two statements, "I don't know why, and I can't explain it but I just know everything is going to be OK and I feel calm" and "I haven't heard, I don't know, I'm uptight and worried everything won't work out the way I want" .The first statement is one of innate trust and the second is one of fear.
Many times you will only trust because a guarantee or the illusion of reassurance is apparent. Ultimately self trust gives security, for will you abandon you? Why do you need it to be just so? What does having it your way give you? Surrender and allow yourself to flow embracing joy and sorrow, happiness and heartache. They are all teachers and healers showing you where you either need to evolve and grow or give self love.
Students who comes with grief, receive listening and then slowly are guided in mindset to see underlying aspects not first understood because emotions restricted wisdom. When I was a teenager my Father passed which delivered my first life lesson challenging me to sink or swim emotionally. It doesn't matter within what time frame you learn, emotional strength and self understanding knows you are being challenged to mature and reach an authentic life.
Trusting the ebb and flow of universal life force brings relief. You are worth a life of serenity and fun filled laughter, train your mind to embrace daily change. There is no loss or gain for you really are perfect just the way you are. You were born free, your soul will leave freely with non-attachment to life's treasures, so enjoy life's offerings it's your path to bliss.
Light and Love...............Margit
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